The (social) Story to this point…
My wife and I decided before we had our first son that we did not want pictures of him, or any of our kids floating around online. We were determined to abstain from posting photos of newborn babies or any milestone moments on Facebook, Instagram , or wherever you view photos that are shared. There wasn’t any kind of political stance, or any sort of bold statement. We just didn’t want to do it. Here we are, over three years later, and that still holds true.
The only photos of my sons that the Internet has seen have been the backs of their heads.
Yeah, but it is called social for a reason!
Many people make use of social sites to keep distant family members “close”, and I will admit that I look to see what other people are up to from time to time. However, my kids are 3 and 3 months. Their activities don’t need to be put up there, right? Well, in talking with some colleagues some time ago, they were in disbelief that we do not post anything with the boys.
Someone even mentioned at one point that they didn’t realize we had two kids because we never posted anything. That isn’t the only format we have for social news. Granted, I am not walking up to people and asking if they had a child lately, but have we forgotten about what life was like before the days of facebook and myspace? I’m not a very private person, I’ll share anything, with anyone. However, it is different with social profiles.
Is it really that bad, though?
I understand that the social media sites are as good, or as bad, as the people that use them. My wife and I didn’t take this stance out of fear. For me, a big part of it was because everyone else does it. Those of you that know me, know that I prefer to go left when everyone else is going right. I’m not a hipster…but I play one on tv.
My wife, on the other hand, came to this decision out of very logical reasoning. She saw something on the news about how people were using the location Metadata attached to the photos taken with phones to be able to identify specific locations and even map out the inside of someone’s house. The story was meant to share how you can turn off those location services, and I recommend everyone do it unless you have a reason not to. However, I will admit that every time I replace my phone, or wipe it to start over again, I forget to turn it off.
Now, is there anyone perusing social sites to capture this data from my photos? Maybe not, but what happens when I become super famous and I have to start worrying about stalkers? Is it paranoid? Perhaps, but these are simple steps that do not impact our lives in any way, so is it really that big of a deal?